When God Says No: David, the Davidic Covenant, and the Promise That Reaches Us Today
Part Five of a series on the life of David — The Woodlands First Baptist Church
Have you ever had a dream of something you wanted to do, but God said no?
That question sits at the center of 2 Samuel 7, the next stop in the series on the life of David at The Woodlands First Baptist Church in The Woodlands, TX. Last week, David brought the Ark of the Covenant, the visible representation of God’s presence, into his capital. A significant amount of time passes between chapters 6 and 7, and by the time the new chapter opens, everything has changed. Second Samuel 7:1 says: “After the king was settled in his palace and the Lord had given him rest from all his enemies around him.”
The details behind that sentence are remarkable. After David conquered the Jebusite fortress of Zion, the King of Tyre, seeing David’s strength, decided friendship was the wise course and built him a palace of cedar. David then defeated Israel’s arch enemy, the Philistines, and drove them far away. Consider what that meant for a man who had spent a decade on the run: settled in a beautiful new palace, in a city literally named the City of David, with no enemy left at the gate. Dr. Bruce Webb wonders aloud whether being settled was not a little unsettling for such a restless young king. What David decided to do next, and how God answered, produced one of the most important passages for understanding our entire faith.
Good Intentions Can Still Be Presumptuous
David said to the prophet Nathan in verse 2: “Here I am, living in a house of cedar, while the ark of God remains in a tent.” The implication was clear. David had decided to build a structure worthy of housing the Ark, and on the surface it makes perfect sense. To the surrounding Canaanite culture, it would have seemed inappropriate not to honor David’s God with a glorious building worthy of all the victories he had given. Honestly, it would not have reflected poorly on David either. A man who did not mind having a city named after himself would have his name forever associated with a magnificent house for God; after all, one of the ways powerful people project strength and protect their legacy is through building projects, often with their name attached.
Initially, Nathan was all for it, and it did not hurt that he would be the religious leader in charge of the structure. He told David that all he wanted to do was good, because the Lord was with him.
Dr. Webb believes David’s intentions were genuinely good, with motives as pure as a human being’s can be. The evidence is in 2 Chronicles 6:7–8, where Solomon reminisces about his father: “My father David had it in his heart to build a temple for the Name of the Lord, the God of Israel. But the Lord said to my father David, ‘You did well to have it in your heart to build a temple for my Name.’” Nevertheless, good intentions can still be presumptuous. As Dr. Webb’s Mama Clara used to tell him when he overstepped his bounds as a child: don’t get too big for your britches. With everyone bowing to him, including his enemies, David got ahead of God.
God’s Answer: Servant, Not King
Senior Pastor Dr. Bruce Webb continues the series on the life of David, unpacking the Davidic Covenant of 2 Samuel 7 and why God’s no to David became the promise that reaches all the way to us.
Verses 4 and 5 record the turn: “But that night the word of the Lord came to Nathan, saying: ‘Go and tell my servant David.’” Notice the word. The Lord does not refer to David as king, the way everyone else was doing, but as servant. God continues: “This is what the Lord says: Are you the one to build me a house to dwell in? I have not dwelt in a house from the day I brought the Israelites up out of Egypt to this day. I have been moving from place to place with a tent as my dwelling. Wherever I have moved with all the Israelites, did I ever say to any of their rulers whom I commanded to shepherd my people Israel, “Why have you not built me a house of cedar?”’”
God had never asked anyone to build him a house, and he was not asking David now. Chief among the reasons: God is not limited to any one place. The Israelites had been nomads, and God traveled with them wherever they went; a tent had actually been more suitable. Referring to this very passage, the first deacon Stephen said in his sermon just before his martyrdom in Acts 7:48–49: “However, the Most High does not live in houses made by human hands. As the prophet says: ‘Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool. What kind of house will you build for me? says the Lord. Or where will my resting place be?’”
Once Israel was settled more permanently, God would allow David’s son Solomon to build a temple. However, and this is very important, it would happen at God’s initiative and on his timing, not David’s. There is an enormous difference between doing what we want for God and doing what God tells us to do. In verse 8 the word appears again: “Now then, tell my servant David.” God reminded David who the true King was, who gives direction, and who takes it. Then he added: “I took you from the pasture, from tending the flock, and appointed you ruler over my people Israel. I have been with you wherever you have gone, and I have cut off all your enemies from before you.” David and the Israelites thought they were carrying God around in the Ark. In reality, God was the one carrying them. Everything they were was the result of his initiative, not theirs.
A Loving Father, Smiling
Dr. Webb senses something warm in these verses: God pleased, even amused, by David’s ambition, while gently and lovingly correcting him. It recalls the disciples arguing about who was the greatest. Jesus never chastised them for wanting to be great, because he wanted them to be great too. Instead, he redefined greatness itself: not titles, recognition, or lording authority over others, but serving, shepherding God’s people. In the same spirit, God told David the reverse of his ambition would take place. David would not build a house for God. God would build an eternal house through David.
The Davidic Covenant: God Builds David’s House
What follows in 2 Samuel 7:9–16 is one of those places where a single prophecy carries multiple fulfillments, and it is hard to overstate its importance to understanding our faith. This promise is known as the Davidic Covenant. God says: “Now I will make your name great, like the names of the greatest men on earth.” It is as if God reminds David that anything he attempts for God is dwarfed by what God has already done and will do for him. The old saying holds: you cannot out give God.
The promise continues: “And I will provide a place for my people Israel and will plant them so that they can have a home of their own and no longer be disturbed. Wicked people will not oppress them anymore, as they did at the beginning and have done ever since the time I appointed leaders over my people Israel. I will also give you rest from all your enemies. The Lord declares to you that the Lord himself will establish a house for you: When your days are over and you rest with your ancestors, I will raise up your offspring to succeed you, your own flesh and blood, and I will establish his kingdom. He is the one who will build a house for my Name, and I will establish the throne of his kingdom forever. I will be his father, and he will be my son. When he does wrong, I will punish him with a rod wielded by men, with floggings inflicted by human hands. But my love will never be taken away from him, as I took it away from Saul, whom I removed from before you. Your house and your kingdom will endure forever before me; your throne will be established forever.”
The first and most immediate fulfillment was Solomon. He succeeded David, built the temple in Jerusalem, and reigned during the era when Israel reached its greatest extent of land, influence, and power, along with its longest period of peace. The discipline described in verse 14 clearly applies to Solomon and the human kings who followed him. However, phrases like “forever” reach far beyond any earthly king. The promise begins with Solomon, expands through God’s purposes for Israel, and ultimately points to someone greater.
Fulfilled in Jesus, the Son of David
The Prophets Saw It Coming
The Old Testament prophets affirm that the Davidic Covenant looked beyond Solomon. Isaiah 9:6–7, the text we read every Christmas, names the Messiah “Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace,” and then adds the part we often miss: “Of the greatness of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever.” That is a direct reference to 2 Samuel 7. Likewise, Jeremiah 23:5–6 prophesies: “The days are coming, declares the Lord, when I will raise up for David a righteous Branch, a King,” one who would be called “The Lord Our Righteous Savior.”
The New Testament Confirms It
The very first verse of the New Testament, Matthew 1:1, presents Jesus as the fulfillment: “This is the genealogy of Jesus the Messiah the son of David.” In Luke 1:31–33, the angel deliberately uses the language of God’s promise when speaking to Mary: “You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”
After Pentecost, Peter drew the connection explicitly for Jews gathered from all over the world. Acts 2:29–36 says: “Fellow Israelites, I can tell you confidently that the patriarch David died and was buried, and his tomb is here to this day. But he was a prophet and knew that God had promised him on oath that he would place one of his descendants on his throne. Seeing what was to come, he spoke of the resurrection of the Messiah, that he was not abandoned to the realm of the dead, nor did his body see decay. God has raised this Jesus to life, and we are all witnesses of it. Exalted to the right hand of God, he has received from the Father the promised Holy Spirit and has poured out what you now see and hear. For David did not ascend to heaven, and yet he said, ‘The Lord said to my Lord: “Sit at my right hand until I make your enemies a footstool for your feet.”’ Therefore let all Israel be assured of this: God has made this Jesus, whom you crucified, both Lord and Messiah.” Peter is quoting David’s own Messianic psalms; David himself understood God had promised him a descendant greater than he.
To wrap it all up with a bow, the last chapter of the New Testament records Jesus saying in Revelation 22:16: “I am the Root and the Offspring of David.” Solomon built a temple; Jesus establishes an eternal kingdom. Solomon sat on David’s throne for a generation; Jesus reigns forever. Through him, salvation is provided for all who believe, and the blessing reaches every nation, exactly as God had promised Abraham long before. The promise was made to David, but its blessings have reached us through Christ. That is the major reason 2 Samuel 7 matters so much. Beyond the covenant itself, the passage also carries two lessons for how we live.
Lesson One: God Is King, and We Are His Servants
David out kicked his coverage when he decided to build a temple for God; nevertheless, Dr. Webb appreciates his initiative. As they say in West Texas, you cannot steer a parked truck, and David was easy to steer because he was on the move. He wanted to do something good. He simply needed to slow down enough to make sure his plans were God’s plans, and that is good advice for all of us.
Have you ever noticed that nearly every meeting or worship experience in church begins with prayer? It is an acknowledgment of our need and our posture toward God’s direction. As the saying goes, we can do more than pray once we have prayed, but we should not do more than pray until we have prayed. Sometimes we pray and receive no direct answer; often that means God has already spoken through his Word, and he trusts us to do the right thing.
Notice how David received God’s no. God had called him servant twice, reminding him that he might be king over Israel, but he was not God’s king; he was God’s servant. Regardless of any position, status, or title we achieve on earth, we will never be anything more important than a servant of God. Beautifully, David embraced it: in his prayer of response, he refers to himself as a servant ten times in twelve verses. He received the correction, and that humility is why a story that starts out badly ends so well.
To Be His Servant Is to Be a King
When Dr. Webb first became a pastor on South Padre Island, a newspaper reporter took a disliking to him almost immediately and wrote a story casting him in the most negative light possible. After several unpleasant encounters over the following months, he finally asked her directly what he had done. Her answer was revealing: “It’s not you personally. It’s just that you Christians lose your own will and knuckle under to God.” Dr. Webb had been reading the great preacher Alexander Maclaren, and he quoted him back to her: “To be His servant is to be a King!” Christians believe the best thing we can do for ourselves and for others is the will of a good God.
Lesson Two: We Can Trust God’s No Because He Is Good
When God says no to our desires and plans, he is not saying no to us. He is saying yes to his plan. It has been said that when we pray, God sometimes says yes, sometimes says not yet because the timing is wrong, and sometimes says no because he has something better than what we are asking.
The Job Nancy Never Prayed For
Dr. Webb illustrated with a story from the early days of his marriage. His wife Nancy had graduated with an interior design degree, but the economy was bad, jobs in the field were scarce, and she was working at a flower shop while he finished a summer of classes. Around that time, their church hosted a prayer seminar in which the leader taught that prayers should be specific, even to the point of setting a deadline for God to answer. It seemed wrong, but they were desperate, so they gave God a deadline to provide Nancy a job with an architecture firm. The deadline came and went without a job. God, as it turns out, is not bound to meet our deadlines.
In the background, they had wished Nancy were certified to teach, since teaching jobs existed even in the small communities where ministry would likely take them. They never even prayed about it, because certification seemed impossible at the time. Meanwhile, as they prayed and waited and felt disappointed, Nancy heard about a brand-new Texas program called alternative certification, which allowed people to begin teaching in shortage districts while taking classes at night. The superintendent of schools attended their church, and Nancy got a teaching job. It was a blessing then, and it put Dr. Webb through seminary for the next three years. Thankfully, God did not answer their original prayer. His no to their request was a yes to a plan much better than they were asking. Martin Luther said it well: “We often pray for silver, but God gives us gold instead.”
You Can’t Beat That
F.B. Huey, Dr. Webb’s Old Testament professor in seminary, once shared that as a young husband, God called him to the mission field, and he struggled with taking his wife and young children out of the country, away from family. As he prayed, he read Romans 12:2, that God’s will is “good, pleasing and perfect,” and concluded simply: “You can’t beat that.” He obeyed, went, and testified that he never regretted it. David wanted to build a house for God, but God’s answer was no because he had something far better: a plan to provide salvation for everyone in the world who would trust in David’s descendant, Jesus.
Our Hope Rests on What God Has Promised
There is a beautiful reversal at the heart of 2 Samuel 7. David begins the chapter wanting to do something great for God. God responds by telling David about the great things he is going to do. Centuries later, God fulfilled that promise by sending Jesus. Consequently, our security ultimately rests not in what we promise to do for God, but in what God has promised to do for us. Our hope, like David’s, rests not primarily on the strength of our commitment to God, but on the faithfulness of the God who keeps his promises.
So if there is something in your life you want very much, and the answer so far has been no, would you trust that God is King and we are his servants? Would you trust that he is good, and his plan is perfect? Would you surrender your life to the God who, as Paul wrote in Ephesians 3:20, “is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us”?
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